okay well, i'm going to tell some things happened in my life! and what i've realized today, thanks for my friends *nadine,sharon,cindy,andrew,josua* for inspiring!
i am an extrovert person, that's why i can't keep any problems by myself and i need to share those things to other for chilling me! and that's why i can't keep things lyk when i was fighting w my ex, hmm okay i know i'm wrong but, hell-yaa that's me! maybe you guys are the same lyk me, some ppl thinks that it's wrong to tell too much privacy to others, but hey i know those i can share my stories w and those who can't! tho being extrovert have some negative affects, ex:
1. feeling guilty, esp when that person doesn't support you or even cheer up, well, you mean to share for making you free but by telling that ppl you got more problems because you feel lyk they hurt you with your words, emm, in this case both of you are wrong. why? cause first that person never thinks how it is to be you, or that person's feeling is 180degrees different than you! well, lyk when you tell a story about your ex then you cry that person will ask you to move on and they'll directly say 'he's not worth fighting for' HECK-YAAAAA i hate it when some1 do this to me i really want to yel 'HEY YOU DON'T KNOW ME! AND HIM 'but remember you're also wrong, cause you weren't selective, if you're her/his friend you should know that he/she is that type of person.think twice!
2. making more enemies, hmmm don't be hypocrite, even close-friend *re:not bestrfiends* may actually hate each other. and by making wrong lyk my story above can make you hate her/him even more! and boooom more enemies! in this case it's better for you to listen but then you may say ' okay thanks for the advise, i'll think about that' and then they'll just shut up, but if you say lyk 'no i don't want, i just want him' huuuuh they'll be actin rude! so it's better for us to yield rather than having more problems ;)
i think those 2 negatve affects will appear to every extrovert person*maybe*. my DP teacher said don't listen to others and the lesson i got from my case is you may share stories to other but don't let others to take part in every single decission you make! this is your life, don't let anyone control it, and fyi, the voice from our heart wouldn't be wrong! cause it's better for us to use feelings not knowledge! and try to be more selective when you can't trust or doesn't feel well w people around you for telling stories, remember! God's the one who is always there when you need someone to share!
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